Why Debt Consolidation Doesn't Work (A Point Of View You May Not Have Considered)
You’ve heard all the commercials that urge you to consolidate your debt into “one low payment”. The concept makes logical sense and promises to free up some cash so it is easier to live paycheck to paycheck. The reason this usually doesn’t work is that it doesn’t address the real problem. The reason we get into this mess is because we have not learned how to spend within our income. What we need is a method to manage and organize our money so we make conscious decisions about how we spend it. A good book that I’ve used is “Your Money or Your Life” by Joe Dominguez.
To get started you might try the following:
1. Get a small notepad to put in your pocket or purse and write down each time you spend money and what it was spent on. This will help you track what you did with that extra cash you pull out of the ATM. (By the way, if you need a small notepad, I have some very cool business card-sized notepads at the office. Just call or email and I’ll send you one!)
2. At the end of the month consolidate your spending information into categories that are meaningful to you.
3. Organize the categories in the following groups:
a. Monthly Required Spending
b. Monthly Discretionary Spending
c. Periodic Required Spending
d. Periodic Discretionary Spending
4. Review your spending and establish funding amounts for your discretionary categories.
5. Label separate envelopes with each of the discretionary categories and fill them with the appropriate amounts of cash. Some envelopes will accumulate cash month-to-month. For instance, your clothing envelope will gradually build up until you actually make that trip to the mall (spoken like a guy, right?).
6. Only use cash from the envelopes to pay for discretionary items. This will help you be less impulsive when you spend money.
7. When you see the need to borrow from one envelope to pay for another category, make a note right on the envelope.
8. At the end of the month, make adjustments to your spending plan and envelope amounts.
This process may seem very time-consuming, but outside of keeping a notepad and using the envelopes the process of establishing a funding plan and making adjustment should only take one evening and eventually only an hour or so a month. If you are married you will want to both commit to this as you get started. You might want to have someone other than your spouse to be your “accountability partner” in following the process.
By following this process you’ll have your spending habits well in hand in no time, which is the root of the debt issue. As you get a handle on your finances, you’ll soon be in the position to put your debts to rest – and with this discipline you’ve developed, a debt consolidation loan might work wonders!

